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| − | The Viagra Myth: The Surprising Impact On Love And Relationships | + | <li>'''CTRL + P:''' switches to the day before</li> |
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| − | lx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> was first introduced to the world, and it is fair to say that the world has not been the same since. The impact of this medication has been enormous, not just in the narrow area of treating erectile dysfunction (ED) for which it was approved, but also in the way we think of sex and sexuality, and even in the realm of relationships between men and women. Millions of men in the United States have tried Pfizer's wonder drug, sildenafil, better known as <a href=http://www.windloadanalysis.com/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a>, and there are thus millions of women who have also seen its effects on their husbands, boyfriends, and lovers. Many other millions of men and women wonder about whether <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a> can offer a solution for their own sexual and emotional problems or for the problems of their partners. We human beings are sexual animals, after all. And unfortunately, our sex lives are not always the way we want them to be. So it's no surprise that when sex goes sour, relationships suffer in other ways as well.
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| − | As a practicing urologist in Boston on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, I have treated many men with sexual problems andmany couples who have sexual issues in their relationships. I knew about the development of <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a> before it was introduced to the public and was involved in its clinical application as soon as the Food and Drug Administration approved the new drug. I had anticipated using <a href=http://www.be.embnet.org/kermit/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> primarily for older patients with well-established erectile dysfunction, but it didn't take long before I realized that I had completely underestimated the huge extent of public interest in trying this new medication. For example, shortly after <a href=http://fb08-biochem58.chemie.bio.uni-giessen.de:8080/grk1384/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> became available, an orthopedic surgeon came up to me in the surgeons' lounge as I was having a cup of coffee between operations.
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| − | "Tell me," he said, "what should I know about prescribing <a href=http://appliworks.jondesign.net/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a>? I have a patient who I think should try it."
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| − | Now I have great respect for my orthopedic colleagues, but I have yet to meet one who would take on the treatment of a problem outside his area of expertise in bones and cartilage. It was quite clear that this surgeon's patient was none other than himself!
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| − | Everyone wants to know about <a href=http://appliworks.jondesign.net/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a>, and many are interested in trying it, whether or not they think they have an erection problem. When I lecture to students at Harvard Medical School about sexuality, there are always a good number of <a href=http://fb08-biochem58.chemie.
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| − | bio.uni-giessen.de:8080/grk1384/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> questions, such as, "What happens when a young, healthy man with normal sexual function takes <a href=http://fb08-biochem58.chemie.bio.uni-giessen.de:8080/grk1384/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a>?" Or "Can a woman tell during sex that her partner has taken <a href=http://fb08-biochem58.chemie.bio.uni-giessen.de:8080/grk1384/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a>?" Or "Is it true that <a href=http://www.windloadanalysis.com/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> increases a man's sex drive?" No one ever falls asleep in those classes!
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| − | "All I can say is 'Wow!'" says one man, and other men listening in wonder how their lives might be different if they also took the magic blue pill.
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| − | Women too have been targeted to confirm <a href=http://www.spin-sthlm.org/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a>'s ability to create satisfaction and serenity within a relationship where frustration and friction had once been the rule. One of the most successful early Pfizer ads showed a series of couples happily dancing together after <a href=http://www.windloadanalysis.com/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> apparently cured the loss of rhythm in their relationship.
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| − | Former senator and presidential candidate Bob Dole appeared in Pfizer ads soon after <a href=http://www.be.embnet.org/kermit/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a>'s introduction and instantly turned into household words the terms <a href=http://zope.ledes.net/ledes/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> and ED. <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a> jokes became a staple of comedy acts on late-night television (Have you heard the one about the man who swallowed <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a>, but it stuck in his throat? He wound up with a very stiff neck!), thus ensuring its place in our cultural lexicon. <a href=http://www.be.embnet.org/kermit/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> tapped into both our fantasies and our embarrassment about sexuality in a way that no other drug had ever done. When, for example, was the last time you heard a joke about a new cholesterol-lowering medication?
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| − | Magical <a href=http://www.windloadanalysis.com/Members/vitalx/page2.html#buy-viagra>Viagra</a>e up to the myth? Is it really that good? Can it truly solve erection problems? What about relationship issues? What does <a href=http://zope.ledes.net/ledes/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> do for a man who has lost his sexual desire or for a man who is simply nervous about having sex with a new partner? What's the real story?
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| − | As someone who treats men with <a href=http://appliworks.jondesign.net/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> nearly every day, I can testify to the remarkable effects of this medication. For many men and their partners, <a href=http://www.be.embnet.org/kermit/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> has unquestionably brought about significant improvements in their lives, and to a degree that was not previously possible with other treatments. And yet there is clearly much more to the story of human sexuality and relationships than the <a href=http://zope.ledes.net/ledes/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> Myth would have us believe. The <a href=http://www.ites.upr.edu:8081/itesplone/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> Myth has less to do with the effectiveness of the medication than with our cultural propensity to look for the easy fix. This myth suggests that a pill that improves blood flow to the penis can solve personal relationship issues, no matter how complex.
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| − | I started wondering about the disconnect between the <a href=http://www.windloadanalysis.com/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> Myth and reality soon after I had started prescribing the medication. John, a fifty-five-year-old man married for over twenty years, saw me three months after I had prescribed <a href=http://www.spin-sthlm.org/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> as treatment for his erectile dysfunction, with which he had suffered for over two years.
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| − | "To tell you the truth, my wife and I decided to separate. All this time, I'd thought that if I could have sex with her again, everything would work out fine. But it turns out that our problems are bigger than the sex thing. So we're splitting up."
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| − | "Did you ever try the <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a>?" I asked.
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| − | John and Chester are just two examples of the many men for whom <a href=http://www.ites.upr.edu:8081/itesplone/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> works in a physical sense as it is supposed to, but the medication failed to meet their expectations in other ways. Even when <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a> works, men like John and Chester often do not want to take it, and their reasons vary. Although I saw these men in my practice every day and intently followed their stories, I was still surprised to learn that the refill rate for <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html?viagra>Viagra</a> prescriptions is less than 50 percent. What happened to the old crude joke that all a man needs in order to be happy is a hard penis and a place to put it? Could our perc
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| − | As I listened to my patients, I came to see that our culture had taken <a href=http://cobweb.ecn.purdue.edu/~cbirdev/uploads/Viagra-Cialas-Levitra.html#viagra>Viagra</a> and created a legend out of it that went far beyond its actual pharmacological properties. People had come to expect that taking a little blue pill could solve their personal and relationship problems, no matter how complex those difficulties were. I heard variations on this theme almost daily. Men or their partners requested prescriptions for <a href=http://www.spin-sthlm.org/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> for all sorts of problems, sometimes with the barest of sexual symptoms: a lack of desire, struggles in existing relationships, fear of intimacy, or a desire to be a sexual superstud, for example. The range of issues for which men could envision successful treatment only with <a href=http://www.windloadanalysis.com/Members/vitalx/page2.html#viagra>Viagra</a> was astounding to me. This aura surrounding a medication that enhances blood flow to the penis is clearly a reflection of who we are and our desire for the easy, quick fix. I have called this exaggerated sense of <a href=http://zope.ledes.net/ledes/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> as a wonder drug for various complex issues the <a href=http://appliworks.jondesign.net/Members/vitalx/page2.html?viagra>Viagra</a> Myth.
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| − | The lessons to be learned are startling, profound, and often inspiring. What does it mean for a man to lose his sense of masculinity and self-esteem? How does this loss manifest itself in the relationship between him and his partner? How do couples survive when a man loses the ability to function sexually? What is it like when his sexual powers return? What is it like for a woman to have her partner restored to his "youthful vigor" after a prolonged period of inactivity?
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